Finally Get Relief from the Resentment & Guilt That You're Tired of Carrying
You deserve to finally feel that freedom.
No losing your self-respect.
No being a doormat.
And you never even have to say a word to the other person.
Step into the 5-Step Forgiveness™ Experience inside this course... because just going through these proven steps is what unlocks the real shift inside you.
Get started now and discover the peace, lightness & genuine freedom that thousands of other students are already living, for real.
This Process is Proven to Help You to…
1. Forgive After Betrayal
For the woman who says, “I forgive you” but can’t stop bringing it up when things get heated…
Ever catch yourself saying you’ve let it go—only to blurt something sharp mid-argument?
This isn’t about “being the bigger person” or forcing your feelings away.
This process lets you change what’s happening inside you, so you can stop pretending, stop punishing, and actually move forward—without dragging the past into every fight, every glance, every day. No more faking it. No more “I forgive you” on the outside, while you’re still hurting inside. There’s a real way out.
2. Forgive a Family Member
For the woman who’s tired of acting “fine” but still resents or shuts down around them…
Ever sit through a family gathering, wearing your best “it’s all good” face—while your body tenses or you avoid real conversation?
Maybe you’re civil, but always a little on guard, distant or feeling like you have to defend yourself.
You don’t need to confront them, reconnect with them, trust them again, tolerate bad behavior, or decide that what happened was okay.
This process helps you deal with what their actions are still creating inside you,
so being around them no longer has to cost you your peace.
3. Stop Waiting to Get Blind-Sided Again
For the woman who wants to stop living on high alert where your mind is always scanning for signs and your heart never fully settles…
You catch yourself checking their phone, watching their tone and waiting for the other shoe to drop. It’s exhausting. You want to trust them, but you have to monitor everything to make sure your world doesn’t come crashing down on you again. This process will give you real relief and help you actually feel safe inside (so you don't have to live like a detective in your own life).
Not blind trust. Not pretending nothing happened. Just not having to live on patrol anymore.
So you can finally breathe and move forward without feeling stupid or unsafe.
4. Release Your Own Guilt
For the woman who can’t stop punishing herself, apologizing, or feeling broken because of “that one thing”…
You replay the conversation. You think about what you should have done differently...never letting yourself off the hook.
So you overcompensate. You try extra hard. You shrink a little. You accept things you normally wouldn’t because somewhere underneath it all is the thought: After what I did, I guess I deserve this.
You want to feel close again, but the shame won’t let you. This process will allow you to genuinely stop holding yourself beneath everyone else, and actually feel worthy of closeness, love, and peace again (instead of punishing yourself forever). Not by pretending it didn’t happen. Not by avoiding responsibility. And not by convincing yourself it was okay.
You were never meant to be defined by that one moment. And it doesn’t have to keep you stuck one more day.
Who Is This For?
This is for you if you've ever thought...
"I said I forgave them. So why do I keep bringing it up?" You genuinely want to move forward but somehow what happened keeps finding its way back into arguments, conversations or your thoughts.
"I'm perfectly nice around them. I just hate how I feel when they're around." You can smile through family gatherings, keep things civil and act completely "fine", while resentment, tension or defensiveness is still running underneath it all.
"They apologized, so why am I still checking?" You want to trust again, but you're still watching their phone, their tone, the clock or anything else that might keep you from being blindsided again.
"It's in the past & they've forgiven me. Why can't I forgive myself?" You've apologized. You've taken responsibility. Maybe everyone else has moved on. But you're still replaying what happened and quietly making yourself pay for it.
Whether the person you are struggling to forgive is...
Your Spouse 🟣 Your Ex 🟣 Your Parent 🟣 Your Child 🟣 a Sibling 🟣a Friend
a Coworker 🟣 Someone from Your Past 🟣 Or Even Yourself
You don't have to keep carrying what happened
Just because you can't change what happened.
Over the last 15+ years, we have helped thousands of students get these results. These are real students at our in-person live events.
The pictures on this page are all from our countless live, in-person events with real students in our programs.
STUDENT WIN
We Cracked the Code!
15+ Years, Thousands of Student Successes...
Over the last 15+ years, we’ve worked with thousands of moms who told me the same thing:
They had tried everything everyone else had told them…years of therapy, reading self-help books, journaling, praying, even just “trying to let it go.”
No matter what they did, the hurt and resentment kept showing up…in little arguments, distance at home, and sleepless nights.
The world kept telling them to “just get over it,” but the truth?
The pain wasn’t in the past—it was right there, affecting their day-to-day experience with their family members and their own peace-of-mind, right now.
What We Do Differently...
After working with thousands and thousands of students, what we discovered (and what changed everything for our students) is that...
The problem was never their strength, their willingness or even the event itself.
The real problem was thinking you could “decide” your way out of unforgiveness, when what you actually need is a step-by-step experience…a real process that releases the pain from the inside out.
When Paul and I started taking our students through our 5-Step Forgiveness™ Framework, they finally felt something shift inside of themselves.
They let go. They felt lighter, more present with their families, and the old hurts finally lost their power.
It Worked for 1000s of Moms Already
Thousands of moms have now experienced real relief and lasting freedom…sometimes after carrying the same pain for decades.
If you’re ready for that same kind of breakthrough, it’s absolutely possible…and you don’t need anyone else to participate.
We INVENTED a proven process and created an eye-opening experiential... that gives you the RELIEF you need...
❌without losing your self-respect
❌without putting up with bad behavior
❌without forcing yourself to be ok with something that you are not ok with and
❌without saying a word to another person
This experience and formula was previously only available inside our 3-day online event, but now we are making it available to you here. That’s exactly what we’ll guide you through inside this course.
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WHAT YOU GET
Here’s How This Forgiveness Experience will Help You Get Relief From Resentment & Guilt
This Course Includes
Bite-Sized Video Lessons: The 5-Step Forgiveness™ Process used by thousands of Moms to get relief from resentment & guilt without losing their self-respect, so that they can sleep, feel lighter and enjoy their family.
Step-by-Step Template: Get the exact step-by-step template that takes all the guesswork out, so you can move from stuck to solved in minutes, not months.
Visual Toolcard: Get instant clarity anytime with our digital toolcard. On your phone or on the frig, at-a-glance, whenever you need it. No more hunting through videos or workbooks.
You May Have "Moved On"...
But Did the "Hurt" Come With You?
They say... “Just get over it.” “You can’t change the past.”
"Stop Letting it Bother You."
and maybe part of you agrees.
But if what happened is truly behind you... why can it still affect how you feel today?
Maybe it looks like...
The heaviness in your chest when their name comes up.
Replaying the arguments in your head hours later.
Going quiet because you are afraid of what will come out if you start talking.
Walking on eggshells around someone you used to feel comfortable with.
Losing patience with the people who had nothing to do with what happened.
Feeling completely fine... until one comment, memory or moment brings it all rushing back.
That doesn't mean you're weak.
And it doesn't mean you haven't tried hard enough to move on.
It means that telling yourself "not to feel something"... hasn't changed what you actually feel.
You Don't Need Another Reminder to "Let it Go."
You need a way to deal with what you are still carrying from what happened.
Not pretend it was okay.
Not wait for the apology that may never come.
Not just "accept it."
And definitely not spend the rest of your life trying harder not to feel what you already feel.
That's exactly what the 5-Step Forgiveness Process™ was designed to help you do.
Privately. Without involving the other person.
Because what happened may be part of your past.
It doesn't have to keep showing up in your present.
The 20-Year Old Betrayal that Haunted Her Marriage
For over 20 years, she carried the silent weight of a betrayal that kept a wall up in her marriage.
She’d spent thousands on therapy, read every book, done everything “right”...but nothing touched the pain that kept showing up in arguments, distance, and sleepless nights.
The event was old, but the unforgiveness was alive. It haunted her, and kept her marriage on the edge.
Everything changed the day she experienced our 5-Step Forgiveness Process™. That day, she successfully released what had haunted her for decades.
For the first time, she felt genuine relief and a new kind of hope.
That’s what this process is about:
Healing the pain from the inside out, even when nothing else has worked.
If you want to experience that kind of true relief, inside FREEDOM RECLAIMED we will show you exactly how.
MEET YOUR HOSTS
We Are The "HOW" People
STACEY & PAUL MARTINO invented their Relationship Development® Methodology and 100s of proprietary tools to empower anyone to transform their relationships, eliminate kerfuffles and create harmony in their home, at work and in life.
For over 15 years, they have helped thousands of people to transform their marriages, parenting, workplace and families! (all by working with the individual student.)
Through their profound work, the Martino’s have shown that couples work, doesn’t work; human relationships are not a mental health issue and that relationship is a skill-set and it can be learned.
The Martino’s have proven that it only takes ONE person to transform a relationship, ANY relationship!
Paul & Stacey Martino
Creators of Relationship Development®,
Founders of RelationshipDevelopment.org
& Hay House Authors, The Missing Piece
Proven Results...1000s Students... 15+ Years
During a 6-year study of student results, the students in their RelationshipU® program had a 1% Divorce Rate, all 6 years! Those results are unheard of and that's because...
their methodology WORKS!
Tens of thousands of people have been through their programs and events. They have spoken to hundreds of thousands of people around the world. They have been featured by people like Russell Brunson and Tony Robbins, and have been seen on NBC, CBS, ABC, Roku, Apple and many other news outlets.
Relationship Development Org (RDO) is a mission-driven organization here to serve families and change the lives of children. RDO’s mission is to empower one individual in each family, with the Relationship Development skill sets to transform their marriage & parenting, break the chains of Demand Relationship™ and change the trajectory of their family’s legacy.
Stacey & Paul have been together for nearly 30 years, have raised 2 amazing kids and grown RDO through all the craziness of life. You can connect with them at RelationshipDevelopment.org
Praise For The Relationship Development® Method
from the students
"Relationship Development is a game changer. The tools shared will affect every (and I mean every) relationship, whether it’s spouse, parent/child, business, co-worker, neighbor. Each relationship can be completely directed in a positive, uplifting, and loving way!”
— Bryant V.
“I stumbled across Stacey and Paul Martino while searching for ways to start my divorce. I felt that I was trapped in a marriage that I didn’t sign up for, with a husband I couldn’t speak to without fighting.
Fast-forward a couple of years and I am the happiest I have ever been! I singlehandedly transformed my broken marriage using the Relationship Development Method. My husband and I talk every day about the topics that we used to fight about.”
— Diana
“Relationship Development is the best thing I’ve ever learned. First, so I can actually love myself for who I am, and second, so I can lead by example and help my kids learn the same. I will be forever grateful to Stacey and Paul for helping me see things differently!”
— Julie R.
“Stacey and Paul Martino are world changers! Relationship Development has taken me to my next level in every area of my life. It fundamentally changed the way I approach life, and now I have total confidence in my ability to skillfully navigate whatever comes next. Despite ongoing challenges, I am the happiest and most at peace that I have ever been. I am eternally grateful to Stacey and Paul for the skills
and tools they teach with such incredible talent, wisdom, and sparkly joy! They are among the most important people of our generation, and I most enthusiastically recommend their teachings to anyone looking to uplevel their life and evolve their soul. Thank you, Martinos, for all you do, and most importantly, who you are!”
— D.H.
“Before joining Relationship Development, my partner and I had been in a comfortable but stagnant relationship for seven years. We were content, but we knew something was missing. Relationship Development has completely transformed our relationship. We went from a ‘meh’ relationship to experiencing love, excitement, and a shared desire to make the most of our lives together. Bonus: Our daughters are witnessing the positive impact of Relationship Development. They see first hand how a healthy and fulfilling relationship looks like and the mindset/tools required to get there.”
— Hannan
“Relationship Development not only saved my marriage, but it also saved me! My marriage was in a shambles. We were fighting what felt like every single day, and I had become a version of myself I knew was not me, not who I wanted to be, and definitely not who my family deserved! Stacey and Paul helped me realize that there was a better way! They helped me to see and understand the dynamics that were
unfolding in the fights between my husband and I, and taught me tools to actually solve them! And it worked! I believe every human deserves this knowledge!”
— Sarah
“Relationship Development has transformed me from the inside out! Everyone deserves to have this opportunity. Practical and transformative. This is worthy work!”
— Renee R.
“Relationship Development has transformed every aspect of my life, from my marriage and parenting to work and family relationships. I can now say that I truly love myself. Life’s challenges haven’t stopped, yet my happiness level keeps on increasing. This method is something every human being deserves to know.”
— A.C.
“Relationship Development has completely transformed my life. I first thought it was going to make my marriage better. What I have actually received has been an absolute gift! The level of peace and joy I get to experience every day is something I never thought was possible. This, from implementing the tools and strategies to become the best and most authentic version of myself possible.”
— Amanda
“I was teetering on the verge of despair and divorce after years of trying everything I could to reconnect with my husband for a more fulfilling and fun marriage... yet everything fell flat so I was exhausted! Something was missing and it felt beyond my grasp! Then I discovered the Martinos and their Relationship Development methodology, and everything changed for the better! I am so much happier and have a stronger love foundation to role model a healthy marriage and home life for our son.”
— S.K.
“By the grace of God, I found Relationship Development. With Paul and Stacey’s guidance, not only was our marriage saved, but it has become better than it ever was before. Our family is joy filled, connected, and there’s a newfound peace in our home. We no longer run to the end of our skillset quickly; we are consistently growing
together as a family and learning to navigate whatever comes our way together.”
— J.S.
“Relationship Development transformed our marriage when political tensions were straining our relationship. By implementing the methods, I shifted how I approached our conversations, especially around politics. Remarkably, this change defused the tension, and my husband, without even knowing about the tools, became more relaxed and happier. As we celebrate 30 years of marriage this year, our relationship, which had been under pressure, is now stronger and more connected. Today, we’ve moved past the political bickering and rediscovered the deep love and passion that first brought us together.”
— L.W.
“Relationship Development has changed my life for the better. I didn’t know there was so much to learn about relationships until I met Stacey and Paul. Everyone needs to learn the Relationship Development skillset and take their relationships to the next level!”
— Hillary
If you’re tired of carrying the weight of old hurts and just want true relief, you deserve to finally feel that freedom…without pretending, suppressing, or being walked over like a doormat.
Step into the 5-Step Forgiveness™ Experience inside this course…
because just going through these proven steps is what unlocks the real shift inside you.
Get started now, and discover for yourself the peace, lightness, and
genuine freedom that thousands of other moms are already living, for real.
Disclaimer: Our programs and content are not couple's counseling and are not intended as professional counseling, mental health, medical, financial, or legal advice. If you require such assistance, please seek the advice of a qualified professional.
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