Turn Dreaded Holiday Get Togethers Into Moments You Actually Look Forward to
No Matter Who’s at the Table
Enjoy your family, protect your peace, & make cherrished memories without walking on eggshells, cutting people off, or bracing for drama.
The Proven Playbook for Enjoying the Holidays... Even If Someone Always Stirs Up Trouble
The Holiday Peace Playbook gives you practical, “just do this” tools for handling those people and those moments that usually ruin holiday gatherings.
Imagine Finally Enjoying the Holidays (Instead of Dreading Them)
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Walk into holiday events without that knot in your stomach so you’re not spending days worrying who’ll start the drama.
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Actually make memories and laugh with your kids instead of sitting out because someone can’t help but stir things up.
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Show up without having to defend yourself, play the bad guy, or put on a fake smile so you never get blamed for “ruining” the holiday.
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Use easy tools right in the moment so you never have to stage confrontations, announce “no contact,” or pretend everything’s fine when it’s not.
If You’ve Ever Thought, “Why Can’t We Just Have One Holiday Without the Drama?” This Is for You
You shouldn’t have to pick between keeping the peace and making real holiday memories.
“I just want one holiday without all the drama.”
“If I speak up, I’ll just be the bad guy again.”
“I’m always stuck managing everyone’s moods or smoothing things over.”
“Why does something always have to go wrong with my own family?”
“I don’t want to skip out, but I can’t do another holiday like last year.”
STUDENT WIN
What If You Didn’t Have to Avoid People or Fake It Just to Survive the Holidays?
Every year, so many people came to me saying they wished they could just enjoy holiday gatherings without the constant tension or having to keep their kids away from the mess.
Over and over, I saw how much they wanted those memories, but felt like their only options were to put up with drama or stay home.
That’s why we created the Holiday Peace Playbook. These are real tools you can quietly use yourself even in the middle of the chaos.
Some are so simple, you can give them to your kids, so everyone feels safe, no matter what gets said.
The results? People who used to dread the holidays now walk in relaxed, enjoy their holiday moments, and go home feeling good about the memories they made.
No therapy, no confrontations, no faking it.
Just real peace, holiday joy, and finally feeling like you belong.
STUDENT WIN
STUDENT WIN
Everything You Need to Take the Stress Out of Family Holidays
This Bundle Includes 3 Life-changing Courses
✔ The Holiday Peace Playbook:
Unlock simple, step-by-step lessons taught by Stacey & Paul. Each video module delivers a practical strategy you can use right away at any holiday gathering no fluff, no overwhelm, just what actually works in real life moments.
✔ Real-Life Tool Demonstrations:
See Stacey & Paul walk you through real scenarios family gatherings, tricky conversations, and everyday moments so you know exactly how to use the tools, even if you’ve “tried everything” before.
✔ The Positively Coexist Course:
The life-changing training for our tool to positively coexist at any get-together without cutting ties, pretending, or getting emotionally drained so you can protect your peace and family, no matter who’s at the table. This tool can be implemented in 60-seconds in any situation with family, co-workers, community members and others where you don’t see eye-to-eye, but want to be able to have harmony without upsets.
✔ The Positively Coexist Visual Tool Card Set:
Download printable, quick-reference cards for each tool keep them on your phone, fridge, or in your bag for on-the-spot support. Never dig through videos or notes when you need help most.
✔ The No-Contact Cure: The Conversation Oprah & the Experts Won’t Have
Get ready for the conversation that rips the lid off the “No Contact Epidemic.” While today’s experts tell you your only option is to cut family out if they won’t change, Paul and Stacey pull back the curtain on what’s really happening and why “going no contact” isn’t actually a solution, it’s a symptom of missing skills.
Inside this revealing video course with Stacey & Paul Martino, you’ll see, step by step, how therapists and thought-leaders are stuck at the end of their skill set, while our proven method makes “no contact” unnecessary in the majority of situations.
Before you go No Contact, or someone does it to you
You deserve to know the REAL answer the answer even Oprah and the experts are blind to you’ll find it inside the No Contact Cure.
Her Next Step Was... 'NO CONTACT'
For years, Anne dreaded every holiday with her mother.
No matter what she did, there was always criticism and judgment nothing was ever good enough.
Her husband begged her to stop seeing her mom, hoping to protect Anne from the pain, but that only led to more arguments and guilt at home.
When her kids grew old enough to notice the tension and even became targets of her mother’s remarks, Anne felt trapped. Friends and even her therapist told her the only solution was to cut her toxic mom out for good.
But Anne couldn’t bear the thought of more family drama, or her children missing out on their grandmother and cousins.
When she found our "Positively Coexist" tool,
she finally saw a new way forward.
Before their next family gathering, Anne taught the tool to her husband and kids.
This time, instead of bracing for disaster, they all used the tool and for the first time, the night ended with smiles and relief, not tears or regret.
Anne left feeling strong, proud, and at peace, knowing she could finally show up without fear,
no matter who was at the table.
Inside Positively Coexist, we’ll show you exactly how to use this tool before your next gathering so you can enjoy every moment and never let a “bad apple” spoil it again.
MEET YOUR GUIDES
We Are The "HOW" People
STACEY MARTINO accidentally discovered the dynamic that's been destroying everybody's long-term relationships and then, together with her husband Paul, they invented the cure to solve it.
Over the last 15+ years thousands & thousands of students around the world have proven that our method and tools work.
These tools give you the results you want in marriage, parenting, workplace, family, friendships...even the relationship you have with yourself.
This has been the missing piece in human relationships.
We call it Relationship Development®.
Through their profound work, the Martino’s have shown that couples work, doesn’t work; and that relationship is a skill-set and it can be learned.
The Martino’s have proven that it only takes ONE person to transform a relationship, ANY relationship!
Paul & Stacey Martino
Creators of Relationship Development®,
Founders of RelationshipDevelopment.org
& Hay House Authors, The Missing Piece
Proven Results... 1000s Students... 15+ Years
During a 6-year study of student results, the students in their RelationshipU® program had a 1% Divorce Rate, all 6 years! Those results are unheard of and that's because...
their methodology WORKS!
Relationship Development Org (RDO) is a mission-driven organization here to serve families and change the lives of children. RDO’s mission is to empower one individual in each family, with the Relationship Development skill sets to transform their marriage & parenting, break the chains of Demand Relationship™ and change the trajectory of their family’s legacy.
Stacey & Paul have been together for nearly 30 years, have raised 2 amazing kids and grown RDO through all the craziness of life.
Praise For The Relationship Development® Method
from the students
"Relationship Development is a game changer. The tools shared will affect every (and I mean every) relationship, whether it’s spouse, parent/child, business, co-worker, neighbor. Each relationship can be completely directed in a positive, uplifting, and loving way!”
— Bryant V.
“I stumbled across Stacey and Paul Martino while searching for ways to start my divorce. I felt that I was trapped in a marriage that I didn’t sign up for, with a husband I couldn’t speak to without fighting.
Fast-forward a couple of years and I am the happiest I have ever been! I singlehandedly transformed my broken marriage using the Relationship Development Method. My husband and I talk every day about the topics that we used to fight about.”
— Diana
“Relationship Development is the best thing I’ve ever learned. First, so I can actually love myself for who I am, and second, so I can lead by example and help my kids learn the same. I will be forever grateful to Stacey and Paul for helping me see things differently!”
— Julie R.
“Stacey and Paul Martino are world changers! Relationship Development has taken me to my next level in every area of my life. It fundamentally changed the way I approach life, and now I have total confidence in my ability to skillfully navigate whatever comes next. Despite ongoing challenges, I am the happiest and most at peace that I have ever been. I am eternally grateful to Stacey and Paul for the skills
and tools they teach with such incredible talent, wisdom, and sparkly joy! They are among the most important people of our generation, and I most enthusiastically recommend their teachings to anyone looking to uplevel their life and evolve their soul. Thank you, Martinos, for all you do, and most importantly, who you are!”
— D.H.
“Before joining Relationship Development, my partner and I had been in a comfortable but stagnant relationship for seven years. We were content, but we knew something was missing. Relationship Development has completely transformed our relationship. We went from a ‘meh’ relationship to experiencing love, excitement, and a shared desire to make the most of our lives together. Bonus: Our daughters are witnessing the positive impact of Relationship Development. They see first hand how a healthy and fulfilling relationship looks like and the mindset/tools required to get there.”
— Hannan
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unfolding in the fights between my husband and I, and taught me tools to actually solve them! And it worked! I believe every human deserves this knowledge!”
— Sarah
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“Relationship Development has transformed every aspect of my life, from my marriage and parenting to work and family relationships. I can now say that I truly love myself. Life’s challenges haven’t stopped, yet my happiness level keeps on increasing. This method is something every human being deserves to know.”
— A.C.
“Relationship Development has completely transformed my life. I first thought it was going to make my marriage better. What I have actually received has been an absolute gift! The level of peace and joy I get to experience every day is something I never thought was possible. This, from implementing the tools and strategies to become the best and most authentic version of myself possible.”
— Amanda
“I was teetering on the verge of despair and divorce after years of trying everything I could to reconnect with my husband for a more fulfilling and fun marriage... yet everything fell flat so I was exhausted! Something was missing and it felt beyond my grasp! Then I discovered the Martinos and their Relationship Development methodology, and everything changed for the better! I am so much happier and have a stronger love foundation to role model a healthy marriage and home life for our son.”
— S.K.
“By the grace of God, I found Relationship Development. With Paul and Stacey’s guidance, not only was our marriage saved, but it has become better than it ever was before. Our family is joy filled, connected, and there’s a newfound peace in our home. We no longer run to the end of our skillset quickly; we are consistently growing
together as a family and learning to navigate whatever comes our way together.”
— J.S.
“Relationship Development transformed our marriage when political tensions were straining our relationship. By implementing the methods, I shifted how I approached our conversations, especially around politics. Remarkably, this change defused the tension, and my husband, without even knowing about the tools, became more relaxed and happier. As we celebrate 30 years of marriage this year, our relationship, which had been under pressure, is now stronger and more connected. Today, we’ve moved past the political bickering and rediscovered the deep love and passion that first brought us together.”
— L.W.
“Relationship Development has changed my life for the better. I didn’t know there was so much to learn about relationships until I met Stacey and Paul. Everyone needs to learn the Relationship Development skillset and take their relationships to the next level!”
— Hillary
You Deserve a Holiday You Can Actually Enjoy
If you’re ready to walk into holiday gatherings feeling calm, confident, and actually excited no matter who’s in the room this is for you.
Grab your copy of the Holiday Peace Playbook and get simple, practical ways to have more good memories this year (without missing out or pretending everything’s fine).
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